About us

I have started a new relationship for more than a month. Reason being starting to write a blog is to give myself a break and clear up mind after being with him.

He is a guy who is mature, determined, smart and successful in his career. Compared to me, i am such dorky but cutie to him :) well, he thinks i am a simple girl but he might not know i am a mature girl too.

from the beginning, he dated for dinner, we went out three times and he asked me if want to date with him. it was fast (!!)  but NO, i almost forgot is that i found he was impressed me since i first met him. it wasn't fast, not love at first sight. i would say this is fate. traced back half year ago, i had a crush on someone. i am glad that fate led me to meet him when i was totally disappointed with someone else and i would be grateful that fate let me know i deserve better.

i still remember very clearly the first time i met him. he was charming and just a normal busy businessman. it was a lunchtime and i went to a wrong restaurant and  almost missed out our first date. we have back and forth txt, not many but enough to keep each other know what we were upto. it has been a almost a month from 2015, we eventually had our second catch up after work. he acted so different from the first time i saw him. i was nervous about the second date. why? because i worried about we had nothing to say. but i was surprised that he voluntarily told me his ex and ex, how many serious relationships he had been gone through (which i am pleased as i didn't expect a guy so willing to share to a girl who just met second time), family and his past. i shared mine abit to him too. it was a great night and i knew that he quite like me. the third date, was the night he asked to be his girl, was around his area. i could feel his excitement when he saw me. he wanted to hug me but i tried to avoid (but it was hard !) we went to have a quick dinner and he started asking me if i wanted to date with him. first of all, i pretend not to listen to him but i kept shaking my head because i just didn't know what to answer. he might i was slow , still had other thoughts, or not ready, etc . it was just me that didn't what to response. after dinner, we walked out from the restaurant. he kind of like showing me around the place around there. he asked me again. i just found it sweet and had not really made up mind to think if this guy is really suitable to me. he was trying to hold my hand. i slightly pushed away. he tried again , i pushed away again and his hand slipped off my hand softly, and i finally held with him. he said "we are now .. right?" :) 

i sometimes recall that night that was quick, unexpected and sweet.